Stimulants for Men

Under the label of male stimulants there are products that work in very different ways. Separating them is the first thing, because a spray retardante and an oral supplement have nothing to do with each other either in mechanism or in the time of use.

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Three categories, three mechanisms

• Retardantes tópicos. Sprays and gels with a local anesthetic, almost always benzocaine or lidocaine, which temporarily reduce the sensitivity of the area. They act in minutes and their effect is local.
• Geles estimulantes. They work in the opposite direction, with ingredients that produce heat or tingling to increase the sensation. They usually contain menthol, arginine or plant extracts.
• Suplementos orales. Capsules or vials with vitamins, amino acids and plant extracts, designed to be taken regularly. They do not have immediate effect.

The detail that almost no one explains about retardants

A gel retardante does not distinguish who it lulls. If product remains on the surface, it is transferred by contact and the couple notices numbness, which is the exact opposite of the intended effect.

The correct protocol has three steps and avoids the problem completely.

First, apply the indicated amount, which in most sprays is two or three sprays, and massage until absorbed. Second, wait five to ten minutes: the product needs that time to penetrate, and using it before then is why many conclude that it doesn't work. Third, and this is the important thing, remove the excess with a damp cloth before contact. The absorption has already occurred; what remains on the surface can only be transferred.

A condom adds an additional barrier and eliminates the risk of transfer. You have them at Condoms.

##Realistic concentrations and expectations

Typical concentrations of benzocaine in over-the-counter products range from 5 to 10 percent. More concentration does not equal better result: above a certain point the loss of sensation can be enough to make it difficult to maintain an erection, which is the most common side effect in the category.

The practical recommendation is to start with the minimum indicated dose and adjust for subsequent uses. And try the product alone the first time, not in a situation with a partner, to calibrate both the quantity and the waiting time.

Precautions that do matter

Always do a test on a small area of skin 24 hours before first full use. Allergy to ester-type anesthetics, including benzocaine, is not rare.

Avoid contact with mucous membranes and do not apply to irritated or wounded skin. If redness, itching or stinging appears, wash with plenty of water and discontinue use.

Oral supplements require different criteria: check the composition if you take medication, especially in the case of cardiovascular or tension treatments, and consult a healthcare professional if you have any questions. These products are wellness items, not medications, and are not a substitute for a medical evaluation.

Compatibility with others

Many retardants are water or alcohol based and are compatible with latex, but it is a good idea to check the label if the format is a cream. If you combine with lubricant, choose water-based so as not to interfere, from Water-Based.

Mechanical alternatives to anesthetic control are at Cock Rings, and the full wellness range at Better Sex.

The categories, compared

Three different mechanisms with three different moments of use. Confusing them is the usual cause of a product not seeming to work.

Category	Mechanism	When to use	Effect	Caution
Retardant spray	Local anesthetic	5 to 10 minutes before	Reduces sensitivity for a while	Withdraw the surplus
Delay cream	Local anesthetic	10 minutes before	More gradual than spray	Minimum quantity
Stimulating gel	Thermal or tingling sensation	Just before	Increases perception	Try before on skin
Oral supplement	Systemic route	According to label	Variable and slow	Possible interactions
Ring	Mechanical pressure	Before full erection	Firmness, without numbness	20 to 30 minutes maximum

The mechanical route, without any active ingredient, is in Cock Rings, and the oral formulas in Supplements & Aphrodisiacs.

##Realistic expectations

Detardants with local anesthetic work in a fairly predictable way, and their limit is that they reduce sensitivity for everything, not just what is of interest. That is why the minimum amount usually gives better results than the generous one.

Oral supplements are wellness products, not medications, and their effect is slow, moderate, and variable from person to person. If the problem is persistent, if there is pain or if cardiovascular medication is involved, it is reasonable to talk to a health professional before starting.

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Frequently asked questions

How do you use a retardant spray?

Applying the minimum amount five to ten minutes before and removing the excess with a cloth or water before contact. That last step avoids transferring the effect to the other person.

Can it be used with a condom?

Yes, and in fact the condom placed after removing the excess reduces the transfer even more. Water-based sprays are latex compatible.

Can several products be combined?

Better one at a time. A retardant and a stimulating gel work in opposite directions, and using three things at once makes it impossible to know which has worked or which has irritated.

Do supplements take immediate effect?

No. Its effect is slow and variable, and none replaces a medical evaluation when the problem recurs or appears suddenly.

What precautions should be taken?

Test any active product on the forearm 24 hours beforehand, do not apply it to irritated skin, and consult a healthcare professional if cardiovascular or other medications are involved.